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What's Your Plan For That Relationship?

  What's Your Plan For That Relationship? Ladies and Gents, any relationship or courtship without purpose and mission, will be a thing of "Had I known" at last. When you fall in love without your brain, it makes you visionless or lust-driven. Definition of relationship will guide you to your desired "destination" and equip you with more knowledge, wisdom, and skills for the journey ahead (Marriage). After 1year, 2years, 3years of Cooking for him, doing his laundry, sleeping with him, video calls, and in some cases, paying his house rent together....You mean to tell me you haven't asked Boo "What are your plans for us if he can't say it??? But Victor, if I ask him, it will appear like I'm desperate. If he can't see your services and formalities as a thing of desperation, why should a harmless question like such be a question of desperation? Listen! It is better to be with someone who needs you than who you carry yourself to... If you'r...
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Dear Men!

  * DEAR MEN!*    *DEAR MEN!!*      *DEAR MEN!!!* 🤏 If you meet a lady in a group, don't take her for granted. Always have it in mind that if not the group you both wouldn't have met........ *RESPECT HER*  🤏 If she allows you to fuck her, dear brother please...... *RESPECT HER*  🤏 Sleeping with you means seeing her nakedness, that is she has nothing to hide for you.... *RESPECT HER*  🤏 If she takes you first in everything with maximum attention brother....... *RESPECT THAT*  🤏 If she's married and she's not shy to tell you she loves you, loving a man isn't easy..... *RESPECT HER FEELINGS*  🤏 If she's faithful and doesn't nag, my dear men, you deserve peace, adore and *RESPECT HER*  🤏 If she cares for you and can't do without you, Uncle please always make her happy..... *RESPECT HER*   *_REMEMBER, THAT RELATIONSHIP CAN GO BEYOND WHERE YOU MET._*  _ADORE, ADMIRE AND CHERISH SUCH RELATIONSHIP_  ...

MY WIFE DOES NOT KNOW THAT I KNOW

  *MY WIFE DOES NOT KNOW THAT I KNOW.*  I have been married for 14years 'we' have 3 kids (all boys) but none of them belongs to me. I know this for a fact but my wife does not know that I know. Let me explain. 5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling for my business trip when a trailer hit our car most of the people lost their lives but I survived by God grace  I spent about 11months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can't have children. I gave my Life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident. I am also doing well in my business,  5years later and met my wife in the process. I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me. 6years into our marriage my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first child. To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA TEST and it was clear I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all ...

THINGS WOMEN FIND ATTRACTIVE IN MEN

  *THINGS WOMEN FIND ATTRACTIVE IN MEN*  Following are 8 traits, both physical and behavioural, that actual scientific research has found that women find attractive in men. These are not mere assumptions or opinions, but actual conclusions that behavioural scientists have come to following extensive research. And what’s even better, they’re actually traits that you can actively work on cultivating and improving. 🎯 *Kind and Generous Spirit* Perhaps one of the most important things when trying to attract a woman is a kind and generous spirit. No woman will truly be able to respect a man who does not respect both himself and others. Kindness to friends, family, and strangers is the key to finding true happiness in all respect of a relationship. 🎯 *The way a man groom himself.* Grooming is no different. It’s a reflection of your pride. If you walk around smelling foul, you’re not just going to struggle more with women; literally everyone will walk away to save their nose. By sm...

FIRST DATE IDEAS (Don'ts......For Ladies

  * FIRST DATE IDEAS (Don'ts......For Ladies )* Aunty, it is well with You.. You're going on a first Date with Uncle Leveticus..... Uncle now asked you to tell him about your self, you answered him that you are owing money for Rent and school fees .. Hah. Aunty, na so? First date is to get to know each other, it's not a time to offload problems (financial and otherwise) on each other. If you know your stomach is 6ft deep, eat at home before going out with a guy, don't go there and order for food as if you want to eat yourself to death. Do you know how much he has presently (cash, and in the account)?  "Order anything you want", you now ordered food for 5 People plus takeaway, is there famine where you came from.?  Tell me about you self, and all you have to tell him about yourself are problems, debts, pain, sorrow, tears, heartbreaks, hah.. Aunty, Aunty, Aunty, how many times did I call you? Know what to say and what not to, you can't be telling him person...

STOP DATING LEFT

  STOP DATING LEFT....... You must be the best of you to attract your other best half.. Dating with the right intent is good but putting it into action, is the best... Everyone deserves happiness, hence don't apply hope where it isn't needed.. If you're dating without marriage at heart, you could easily hurt the heart that loves you.... # Dating Advice # 1. DATE a man who is ready to settle down and not one that comes to check "if it will work out" ~ If sex becomes the issue; love can never prevail.  2. Never ask a man " When are you coming to see my people? " ~ Give yourself insurance before seeking assurance... ~ Don't search for a husband; rather seek for job opportunities. 3. " I will marry you " " Be the mother of my future kids" Listen; ~ Those who you hold dearly to your heart are those who are likely to walk away boldly without a flinch.. Therefore; ~ Whosoever that deserves you, will "fight" for your love.. ~ Pr...

CAN TWO WALK TOGETHER WITHOUT AN AGREEMENT?

  Question: "She says she won't join me in my church after our wedding, what do I do?" Answer: It's quite simple really Amos 3:3 "Can two work together except they be in agreement?" The answer is No Ideally, because the Man is the Head as so ordained by God, it follows that a lady who accepts to marry a Man is also accepting to Follow him as he Leads Her. And one of the areas she is to follow the Man apart from location of residence is in place of worship.  However, this issue is also very much up to the parties involved and should be discussed and addressed BEFORE the couple say I DO.  As a Lady, do not marry a Man you know you can't/won't worship in his church after you're wedded, except you've talked and he has agreed that you can worship in yours, otherwise.............  Dear Brother, If you don't mind, then give her permission to worship in her church after you become one. But if you know you would want you and your wife to worship i...