Ban of Gilead

  MY WILL* My dearest singles So many Christians are confused when it comes to finding the will of God in marriage. And so many brothers and sisters has been deceive by their emotions. My dear brothers and sister the person you have his or her picture in your mind that you dreamt of settling down with, is not the same person you are going to present to God when praying for God's will in marriage So many Christians are selfish to their own self they think that God is a partial God When you tell someone pray for God's will in marriage, and theres this particular brother or sister they love so much that they have been admiring in secret, now when they want to pray to God to settle them maritally they will start praying to God give me this particular brother or sister this is the perfect man or woman I want, without them allowing God to make a choice for them so many of them go to the extent of threatening God if you don't give me this particular person I will quit serving you...

  6 KEYS TO A GREAT RELATIONSHIP!!!❤ 1. FRIENDSHIP:  Try to be your partner best friend. No matter what happens, be a friend first, and a lover later.❤ 2. TRUST:  The key element to any relationship is trust, so before starting this beautiful journey with your partner, learn to trust in all circumstances.❤ 3. UNDERSTANDING:  Try to figure out each other and work out on our differences. There are going to be many differences, but it’s mutual compromise and sacrifice which makes this relationship beautiful.❤ 4. COMMUNICATION:  Try to talk and convey your message to your spouse. Let your spouse know about how good/bad your day was along with reminding them how you feel for them.❤ 5. HONESTY:  Always speak the truth, never lie or hide things in fear that your partner won’t understand. Give your partner a chance to understand you.❤ 6. FREEDOM:  Give your spouse space and freedom to decide for themselves. Don’t take away the personal time of your spouse. Whe...

  Whenever your husband is returning home, the moment he enters the house, as a wife, halt whatever you are doing immediately:  -If you are on a call, end it.  -If you are surfing the net, drop the phone.  -If you are on a chat, suspend it.  -If you have visitors, leave them and walk up to your husband.   -Whatever chore you are doing, abandon it, if it can't be abandoned, say something positive.  -If you are in an online live event, suspend it.  -If you are watching TV, abandon it.  For indeed, your husband is your king and if a king enters his palace, it's not befitting that he shouldn't be welcomed, so hurry up to welcome your king, collect his brief case/load, sit him down, switch on the fan/AC for him, clean the sweat on his forehead, collect his car/bike keys from him and place them on the table, remove his shoes and socks, prepare the bathroom for his bath and serve his meal.    Dear husbands ,  Whenever your w...

  Are you praying for your marriage? Good, but prayer is not enough. Being a prayer warrior is not a ticket to laziness. To have a fruitful marriage, you also need to be... 1. A GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST Yes, you are talking to God; but you also need to learn how to have conversations with your spouse. How to have communication skills, how to invite your spouse into a talk and sustain that talk. How to listen and engage. Your spouse needs someone to talk to, not just someone to pray for him/her 2. A TEAM PLAYER  As you pray, get up on your knees and be a team player. Come up with goals and plans with your spouse and follow them through, do activities with your spouse, go on dates  3. A FUN CHARACTER Laughter is good for your marriage. Not every time is spiritual warfare time. You need to stop being too serious and rigid. Be silly with your spouse, crack jokes, be fun 4. A SEXY PARTNER  You cannot pray your way into an orgasm. Being sexy and sexual with your spouse is no...

  Dear Brother It was a bright sunny day, a Woman stepped into the Pharmacy with her little kid. I attended to them, and prescribed some drugs after clerking her. She told me to please write a receipt showing the bill she was to pay for her so she could go show her husband who was going to pay for the bills. She then asked me to inflate the bill by several thousands. She told me her Husband doesn't give her money for her personal upkeep, or anything.  That circumstances like this were the only opportunities she got to get money from her husband for herself.  A look at her from her head to her feet was enough to believe her story. She looked it. 4 Things : 1) As a Man, when you do not make it a habit of giving your Wife money especially when she is dependent on you for it, she'll look for alternative ways to get the money from you, or from somewhere else. 2) As a Man, know how to give your Woman money even before she asks or if she never asks, Not every Woman knows how to ...

 TOP 7 LESSONS LEARNED IN LIFE✔ 1. *Dr. Ben Carson said,* "I struggled academically throughout elementary school yet became the best neurosurgeon in the world in 1987."  *LESSON:* Struggling is a sign that you are on a verge of success. Don't quit yet.  2. *Bill Gates said,* "I didn't even complete my university education but became the world's richest man."   *LESSON:* School does not make you rich. School is only supposed to polish what will make you rich, not make you rich. 3. *Christiano Ronaldo said,* "I told my father that we would be very rich but he couldn't believe me. I made it a reality."   *LESSON:* Your words rule your life. If you mean what you have said, each word will come to pass. You get what you say.  4. *Hear Lionel Messi!,* "I used to serve tea at a shop to support my football training and still became one of the world's best footballers."  *LESSON:* Believe in your dream. Don't let your pain tel...

 *BE CAREFUL WHO YOU PUSH AWAY FROM YOUR LIFE.*  Have you ever been in a situation whereby someone loved you so deeply to a point whereby they would do anything for you, you have full confidence that they would do anything for you, you have put them to the test many times and they confirmed that they will do anything for you. They have demonstrated their love for you in every day possible but....You didn't accept them because you felt they are not your type, they are not the person you intend to spend the rest of your life with. They don't meet up with the height requirements you have of the picture of your dream spouse. They are not physically up to your standards, they don't have the financial capacity to meet up to your needs, they don't speak good English, they are not just your spec. They chased you for a long time but you kept pushing them away. They kept coming to you and you kept pushing them away to a point that they left. Later in life you then met a person wh...

  Counselor Dr Ben Disclaimer: This is not counseling. This is for general education.  Complains are expressions of dissatisfaction. It's a form of communication in a relationship or marriage. It's when one is expressing their pain, suffering or discomfort. It's not the same as blame; that is when one is accusing you or declaring that you are responsible for a fault or wrong. When babies or children cry, they are communicating, it does not mean they are accusing a parent for not taking care of them but rather telling the parent they need attention. No good parent abandons their child when they cry, because the child needs them. However, many spouses or partners abandon their partners when they complain and rather feel they are being blamed for something they did not do. Marriage indeed is not for everyone. Not everyone is mature enough to understand some of these things. One of the reasons why people go into relationships is for them to b...