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Dear Brother

It was a bright sunny day, a Woman stepped into the Pharmacy with her little kid.

I attended to them, and prescribed some drugs after clerking her.

She told me to please write a receipt showing the bill she was to pay for her so she could go show her husband who was going to pay for the bills. She then asked me to inflate the bill by several thousands. She told me her Husband doesn't give her money for her personal upkeep, or anything. 

That circumstances like this were the only opportunities she got to get money from her husband for herself. 

A look at her from her head to her feet was enough to believe her story.

She looked it.


4 Things:

1) As a Man, when you do not make it a habit of giving your Wife money especially when she is dependent on you for it, she'll look for alternative ways to get the money from you, or from somewhere else.

2) As a Man, know how to give your Woman money even before she asks or if she never asks, Not every Woman knows how to ask her Man for money.

3) Money for food for the home ISN'T the same thing as Money for her personal upkeep.

Separate the two..

Know this and know peace.

4) Please Sir, Don't marry any Woman you don't have any plans to take care of.


Dear Lady

Make sure you have CAPACITY and ABILITY to make Money for yourself by yourself to take care of yourself. 

Don't leave yourself at the mercy of a Man. Anything can happen. 


May God not allow any of us see Poverty of any kind.

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