FIRST DATE IDEAS (For Brothers

 

*FIRST DATE IDEAS (For Brothers)*

First Date is a time to get to know more about each other.

AND to have a good time, relax and begin bonding.. Crack jokes and have a nice meal. 

 It is not a time to launch a full scale investigation into her past, present and future participle. There will be other dates na. 

Ask about her family, about her education, her hobbies, her fears.. But easy with the questions, before the dates starts to resemble an interview abi audition. 

Do not be in a hurry to ask her questions that are way too personal and invasive. Let her feel close and safe with you first, let her get into the groove.

You can't be asking a lady if she's a virgin on the first date (even 5th date self), or if she has stretch marks, telling her you don't like stratch marks oh... How? . 

And some of you, you'll go for a Date that will last 5 hours and you'll tak for 4 hours. Are you Sidney Talker? Or you're related to Basket Mouth?

Don't get carried away and just keep talking, allow the lady talk too. 

Nothing turns off a Lady than a guy who can't just stop talking. You'll talk for full 40 minutes straight, no be juju be dat? 

And leave your ex and your hate for her out of the discussion as much as is possible. It's a date, not a group therapy session.

Don't come and be talking on and on about your ex, your ex likes this, your ex hates that, Let sleeping exes Lie,

Forget your X, it's time to Find Y. 

Keep your hands to Yourself..

What's that? First date and you want to hold her waist? Because of Coke, Ice Cream and Pizza? You're looking for who will embarrass you àbí?

Sir, try and Leave your phone on silent, switch off your data if possible, you won't die, don't be on a date and be Facebooking and replying your WhatsApp messages intermittently, abi you want to propose to the internet? 

Did you come for a date or you came to press phone?

It's a date, eat, drink, laugh and relax.

And hopefully, you'll create a very suitable platform for a beautiful friendship to bud that will lead to beautiful things in the very nearest future.