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HONOUR YOUR SPOUSE

 


Whenever your husband is returning home, the moment he enters the house, as a wife, halt whatever you are doing immediately: 

-If you are on a call, end it. 

-If you are surfing the net, drop the phone. 

-If you are on a chat, suspend it. 

-If you have visitors, leave them and walk up to your husband.  

-Whatever chore you are doing, abandon it, if it can't be abandoned, say something positive. 

-If you are in an online live event, suspend it. 

-If you are watching TV, abandon it. 

For indeed, your husband is your king and if a king enters his palace, it's not befitting that he shouldn't be welcomed, so hurry up to welcome your king, collect his brief case/load, sit him down, switch on the fan/AC for him, clean the sweat on his forehead, collect his car/bike keys from him and place them on the table, remove his shoes and socks, prepare the bathroom for his bath and serve his meal.  


 Dear husbands , 

Whenever your wife is returning home from work or the market too, whatever it is you are doing, suspend it if possible: 

Collect the load from her. 

Give her a warm hug. 

Give her a kiss or peck. 

Shake hands with her.  

All these and more will make your wife feel relieved and cherished, it will make her forget the stress she passed through out there.

It's an act of disregard for your husband to return home, and you keep doing whatever you are doing, for you never can tell what he passed through out there while hustling for the family. 

As long as we refuse to implement these 'little' things in our lives, many marriages will not stand the test of time, for its the combination of stones that makes a mountain and droplets of water makes an ocean. 

May our homes be rectified. Amen.

 God will keep our homes in Jesus' Name.

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