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MY WILL*

My dearest singles

So many Christians are confused when it comes to finding the will of God in marriage.

And so many brothers and sisters has been deceive by their emotions.

My dear brothers and sister the person you have his or her picture in your mind that you dreamt of settling down with, is not the same person you are going to present to God when praying for God's will in marriage

So many Christians are selfish to their own self they think that God is a partial God

When you tell someone pray for God's will in marriage, and theres this particular brother or sister they love so much that they have been admiring in secret, now when they want to pray to God to settle them maritally they will start praying to God give me this particular brother or sister this is the perfect man or woman I want, without them allowing God to make a choice for them so many of them go to the extent of threatening God if you don't give me this particular person I will quit serving you if you don't give me this particular person I will remain single forever,

They fail to ask this question with this particular person give me peace ,joy ,happiness, and will this marriage lead me to everlasting joy in heaven or with this marriage make me to lose my believe in God or with this marriage end my life.

 all they seek is what they see presently, but they forgot that their tomorrow is deeper than what they see today, my dear brothers and sister the perfect will of God in marriage is the one you pray with open heart without having anyone in mind, is the one you pray and ask Jesus Christ to be the selector is the one you pray and ask God to be the originator of your union, not the one you have already originated or forcing God to perfect, it when you start crying๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ tomorrow God will be watching you when you start lamenting tomorrow no one will be there to help you, we only come to your wedding congratulate you present our gift to you eat the rice you cook but when you will start facing pains in your marriage no one will be there so therefore as you are planning to get married be wise and allow God to be your originator and organiser 


God bless you all ๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’“

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