ATTITUDES OF A GOOD AND GODLY HUSBAND

*ATTITUDES OF A GOOD AND GODLY HUSBAND*

If you desire to be the husband every woman would respect and willingly submit under his authority then you must work hard to possess these qualities as a good husband.

*GOOD LISTENER*

He should be concerned about her thoughts and stories. A woman wants a husband she can open up to. An emotional companion

*KEEP QUIET*

He should know when to hold back his tongue to prevent things from escalating especially when she is moody.

*COMMUNICATE*

He should learn the art of communication; face to face and over the phone. Learn to check up on her, to engage, to chat her up and keep loneliness away

*GIVE DIRECTION*

He should learn to give direction. Where are they going as a couple and family? He should offer confidence, vision and leadership

*STAY FAITHFUL*

He should show commitment to the vision of their love through faithfulness. Leading from the front publicly and privately. Keeping off other women.

*PURSUE*

He should date his wife no matter how long they have been together. Make her feel special, compliment her, flirt with her, pursue her, romance her, excite her heart, treat her like a queen.

*BOOST SELF ESTEEM*

He should make her believe in herself more, drowning her doubts, allaying her fears, reminding her who she is when she forgets, lifting up her spirits when she feels low, making her feel sexy and beautiful when she does not feel all that.

*PRAY & TEACH*

He should cover his wife and children in prayer, a prayer warrior in the spiritual realm, committing his family to his maker, putting on the full armour and going to war, accessing the spiritual blessings meant for his family.

He must develop his wife with scriptures which is spiritual food so as to grow up together as deep will always search into the deep.

*COMFORT*

He should be a shoulder to lean on when she cries, the person she runs to when this world overwhelms her. Her cover.

*SEXUALLY AROUSE*

He should make her feel desired and wanted. Turn her on like crazy. Open her tap of wetness. Know which buttons to push to give her sweet highs.

*PROVIDE*

Whether she earns more than him or not, he should play his part in meeting the needs of the family and seek ways to get more provisions and investments.

*ENCOURAGE*

He should be her voice of reason. The firm voice that counters her negative voices or the storms that shake her. He should be that man who tells her “I believe in you honey. You can do this.

God bless you!

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