When you go to a restaurant, of course there are always SEVERAL meals on the menu, but you are asked a question
"WHAT would YOU Like to have?" (Because you can't have everything on the menu and it is you who must place the order because it is you who will eat it)
You will see other people eating different meals that they ordered, some will look at you disapprovingly because you ordered something they don't like (one man's meat, another man's poison).
This is Life
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A Life Partner is like a Meal you order at a restaurant.
You order for someone that you like, and gives you happiness.
Never allow anybody mock your choice.
Never allow anybody make you change your mind for some one that (1) you love, (2) who loves you too, and (3) Whom you are happy and find peace of mind with (4) you are compatible with .....
If your fiancee doesn't like cooking, but she is submissive and makes you happy, and you are WILLING to do the cooking or get a cook, please don't because of what anybody says dump her.
It is you that will live with her. Not them.
If your Man doesn't know how to dress like a fashionista, or he's not as handsome as Brad Pitt, but you actually like him like that, he's a good man, and he adores you, but your friends are mocking you, please hold him tight..
It is you that will live with him.. Not your friends
Your friend is telling you that your fiancee is too slim, are you marrying her for him?
Your Sister is telling you that your husband-to-be is too short, she doesn't like him, are you marrying him for her?
Listen to what people are saying, but in the end, as long as they love God, love you, aren't abusive, aren't taking advantage of you, it's not wise to end a relationships because a friend of yours, or a family member doesn't like an aspect (a flaw) of someone you want to marry.
Remember,
Everybody orders what THEY like in a restaurant, not what EVERYBODY likes.
Rice, or Beans, Order what (who) YOU like.
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