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DON'T HURT ANYONE INTENTIONALLY BECAUSE YOU WERE HURT BY SOMEONE ELSE.

 


DON'T HURT ANYONE INTENTIONALLY BECAUSE YOU WERE HURT BY SOMEONE ELSE.

You dated someone in the past, you were all loving and caring, but for one reason or the other, your love was not reciprocated, the relationship ended, you got hurt, you were broken, you were turned apart, you even went into depression, then you made up your mind that someone else will get punished for it.

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You decided to punish an innocent person who had not idea, who had nothing to do with what you went through, an innocent person who all they want to do is to love and care for you, you no longer see their efforts because you have made up your mind not to, you're blinded by the past, you feel everyone that comes into your life came to hurt you.

What ever happens to you in the past should be in the past, stop transferring aggression and frustration on an innocent person, if you really want to vent your anger on someone, look for the person who broke your heart and break their heart too, avoid hurting an innocent person, they are not responsible for your misfortune.

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Learn to love those that love you, regardless of what happened to you in the past, everything happens for a reason, your experience in the past helps to shape and make you a better person in preparation for the person God has destined to be with you, don't allow the past jeopardize you beautiful future you have.


There is no sorrow heaven cannot heal.. 💕

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