HUSBAND IS NOT FROM CHURCH, BUT FROM ABOVE

HUSBAND IS NOT FROM CHURCH, HUSBAND IS FROM ABOVE

In recent period I have spoken to quite several church ladies about being single and searching for, if there is one thing I can pick from all of them is "Mama, I need to change church, maybe someone might notice me elsewhere.

Hmmm, I have once had this thought also

This is my story, I pray someone will learn something from it.

I am a church girl to the core both when I was single and now, no outing, not visiting friends, no party, asin, nothing social about me, all I do is school, work, market and church, that's my life circle till this moment and I am so much loving it, I am 100 per cent Church addicted lady.

But It was a little frustrating when I was believing God for a life partner, I never met anyone new at that time, aside from my church brothers, all I saw then was the old faces of brothers in church (since Church was the only place we go frequently ) and to think that those brothers were just dancing around us then, leaving us(the sisters) thinking that one day they will talk oh but the next thing we will hear is their wedding bell ringing, they prefer to go to another branch to pick who to marry (chai, it only God that will forgive those brothers, 🤣🤣🤣)

 That was the stories of the sister in my branch at that time, some got frustrated and moved out of the church to another Church, some relocated to another town, I was still there, no place to you

One of the weekends after choir rehearsals, I was chatting with my pastor, Pastor Adebayo Victor, he said Comfort, I know you are planning to leave this town to a bigger city just like your other friends did, he said, please, don't think about it, stay here, keep serving God, while you are serving God, He will bring your husband to you, it might not be someone from this environment but God has a way of locating His children who serve Him. 

Those words hit me like bullets, I went to God and I renewed my covenant of service with Him, I said, whether you give me husband here or not I will serve you for who you are not for a husband. That was the turning point for me unknowingly.

I got more dedicated to God and His kingdom, I was madly in Love with Christ, I went all out for God, I was serving zealously in different units.

 Then 3 months later, I was in my workplace when I was called upon that we have a new assistant pastor, hmmn, to cut the long story short that was how the pastor got attracted to the way I serve God and he started pastoring me, and pastoring me, until he pastored me into his house 5 months later 👰 💍 💒 here I am today, 13 years later, he is still pastoring me and our two children.

My question!

What if I had left that church to another location in search of a husband? I would have missed it, maybe I will still be searching for today

Many Singles has left their God-ordained place in search of who to marry, going from one church to the other

Husband is not from the church, husband is from above, in fact, getting who marry you is not about your location, is about your connection to God

It is favour that locates a woman for marriage, not location

Before you leave that church to another in search of a life partner, ask yourself, am I serving God for what to get from Him or for who He is?

Many are ordained to meet their life partner in church, that's fine, but if you are not ordained to meet yours in church, who says you can't meet him elsewhere? The wind of the Holy Spirit is at work, yours is to stay put in the location where you find yourself except if God ask you to move, continue to serve Him faithfully when your cloud is full the rain will surely fall

Stop husband-hunting, start God hunting, He is your father, and He knows how to give good things to them that serve and loves Him. Settled down with Him, what you need is only in God. He is the only one that can give a good husband.

Instead of changing your church, change your level of serving Him to a high gear, and He will surely satisfy your desire. Don't mind the mockers in that your local church, in your mockery lies your testimony 

Relax, I say relax

Serve God, I say serve God

He will surely give you your own.

A good husband is from above

I pray for everyone believing God for a life partner, the same wind that blew and brought quails for the children of Isreal, will blow your husbands and wives to your direction in Jesus name.