Men crave for acceptance while Women Crave for Assurance

Was driving a few days ago, my Wife by the passenger's sit next to me.

Next thing I hear is "Honey, will you fight for Me?"

Me: "You Say?"

She repeats the question again

"Will you fight for me?"

Am I a wrestler I wanted to ask, you kuku know I'm a Pastor, but I knew what the real question was and that it had nothing to do with violence, so I replied "Yes I will"

She giggled excitedly. Happy. That's all she wanted to hear, nothing else.

It's not uncommon to hear ladies ask their partner/husbands questions like

"Honey do you really love me?"

"Sweet, why do you love me?"

"Babe, you love me right?"

"How much do you love me?"

All they want is ASSURANCE.

While Men crave ACCEPTANCE, Women crave Assurance.

She wants to hear how much you love and cherish her and will give her the moon and the stars every 20 seconds..

Dear Brother.

Don't get offended when she asks you for the umpteenth time if you love her, just answer in the affirmative and reassure her. That's all.

She's a Woman, it's in their DNA.

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