SINGLE MOTHER.....SINGLE WONAN

*SINGLE MOTHER.....SINGLE WOMAN*

At the end of the day, a single mother is still a single woman; she has every right to desire love. Every right to desire a husband, to be pursued, to be romanced, to be needed by a man, to enjoy adult conversations with a man of her dream.

Just because of the scars in her, stretch marks around her stomach, doesn't make her different from others. Just because she has a child/children doesn't make her less attractive, doesn't make her undateable, uncourtable or unlovable.

Yes, she is a mother and she is also a woman with feelings and blood running through her veins, a beautiful woman with a lot to offer. Man, love her as a woman, not a social tag. Don't judge her desire thinking that she is out to use you to fix herself. She is not broken, she is not a mess; she is an awesome woman with a human need to Love and be Loved.

She is doing well by herself and not looking for pity. She loves her child/children in the deepest way and yet she has a lot of love in her, yearning to be poured on that special man. Spend time with her as a woman and get to really know her, get to understand the circumstances that led to her being a single mother and you will respect her for her strength.

Feel her beauty, watch her special glow that is beyond her motherhood, she is a mother and so much more. And then witness how amazing she is by how she has raised her child/children, her good motherhood reflects who she is as a person.

Her child/children are an extension of her; if it will be easy to love her it will be easy to love her child/children; you will be loved for making mummy happy.

Single Mother, you are Beautiful, Amazing and Wonderful; you make a great mother; and one day, you will make a great wife to the man who will see you for all that you are.!

Standing Ovation to all Single Mums/Single Parents and mother's on this great platform. You will always have my Respect 💯!

Thanks for reading🌷

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